17 Reasons infidelity

According to the therapists, spouses change their spouses, most often due to not because of selfishness or immoral motives, but for the reasons listed below. Firstly, by Mira Kirshenbaum, married to change, to find themselves. "For a long time in your life it forces that prevent you to be yourself, to express yourself and be betrayal - it's the best way to understand how to be who you really are," - says the therapist. The second reason for treason - a random link. If a person can not do it, but was in the wrong place at the wrong time. The third reason for treason - sexual panic. "Do you feel that your sexual power dwindles to show panic and crank lover that you do not become weaker in bed" - the author explains. The fourth reason is adultery in a marriage where the partners 'kill' to decide their relationship. "Is the idea that we know about the change, and it is a marriage strike, either destroy it or lead to stronger," - says psychotherapist, adding that the crisis in marriage is also the reason why people change . The sixth reason betrayal - they try to sell high. "Your life goes on, and the spouse behind - says Kirshenbaum -. Having an extramarital affair that to someone who you think is the best meets your position." The desire to warm up old relationship in a marriage - is another reason to change, as well as the usual excuse to try if you are, then, get yourself a little pleasure, says psychotherapist. The ninth reason betrayal - it's just an escape. The authors argue that the fear leads to the marriage to end, to the fact that a person hopes that betrayal reached the end. Or a person with treason tries to understand what his life further, if you can get it to someone else, what is lacking in a marriage - This is the tenth cause of treason is. The desire is to distract the eleventh cause of links on the page. Twelfth reason is the desire of a partner to see their self-esteem and the desire, if he could increase someone else please. Fourteenth fundamental change, is the desire to experience that did not happen to win. Fifteenth - the desire to avenge his own half. Sixteenth - a midlife crisis. And the last reason why people change in marriage, according to the American psychotherapists are unrealized needs. The author also advises men who are lovers, not to confess their sins, as the truth can do more harm than obfuscation.